Dating shy quiet guy
And lets face it 80% of the time when a guy approaches a girl in a bar/club or anywhere for that matter sex all they are after.
If there was some way to reassure people I was looking for a relationship and not just sex I know I wouldn't feel as uncomfortable.
Okay, I'm probably what you would consider a shy/queit guy. Regardless of the reasons why the guy is shy, he will no doubt always want to express himself and be open, but remains in the passive state because he fears something.
For me, it helps a lot to be sort of "coaxed" or led along in expressive activities...
@ oprime "My advice: Just relax and try to not get so worked up about the way the other person looks or how you much be crushing on them already.
:)" thanks for your advice, hopefully it will help somebody :)@Tyler Derdin, Alclohol doesnt help any situation but oh well If it helps you talk to women its ok i guess.
When you go into something you will always sense a hesitation about someone. do this repeatedly and after a while it will get easier.
This overly nervous type to me - equates to lack of confidence and confidence is the sexiest thing about a man.If he stammers trying to talk to you, you might want to say something humorous to help him loosen up or embarass yourself slightly to take yourself a few notches down on that pedestal he's put you on.If you like him, come out and say "look, it's simple: I like you."I'm a guy and while I'm a bit shy at first, once I get going I'm as talkative as the next [email protected] for sharing your opinions with all of us, I'm sure everyones posts are helping the shy ones : P @kicnbac Thank you for being so open, and i am glad things worked out for you in the end... Say whatever's comfortable enough times and he will start to believe you. maybe I can say little somethings like your sexy, sweet, etc....every day Thanks again for the advice,~With an X and an O this chick has got to go~-Red-I know the main reason I am shy when it comes to talking to and introducing myself to girls is that I don't want to come across as typical.
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